Thursday, September 06, 2007

Introducing: The Bébé Experience


Hello, Hello, Hello! Hello, Hello,

While pondering the events of today--what do I do first, that is..--I came across the idea of making a dramatic separation between my Korean Blog (as it has slowly been changing from its original purpose, justifiably, to make room for the bébé bun and his arrival) to that of another blog, now titled, The Bébé Experience (how original: there were too many "baby experience" websites, so I gently changed the name!) And so, this new bébé blog will be dedicated solely to discussing motherhood in all its splendor, with perhaps, a whip of French and a twirl of multiculturalism: after all, our bébé bun is both Pakistani and American! How unique, how spirited, you comment. Indeed. So why didn't I think of this sooner? I call it, a baby-do. (--check out the new blog for an explanation on this fabulous new word construction!)

So feast your eyes, if you are so curious; but give me time, as I have yet to adjust the website, tweak it a bit, and add the many, many, MANY photos I have taken and have yet to take relating to my baby experience.

Until next time,

Chelsea

Tuesday, September 04, 2007

A day at the beach~ Pohang Style!


Is the water cold or what?
Swimming Pohang style means~ you swim with your clothes on!



Two weekends ago, I told Ahsan, "Alright, hon, on Sunday, we have no plans. So we either go to Pohang or Busan. You choose! But I gotta get out of Daegu...and I want to see WATER! Oh, and some dae-geh would be nice!" Coming from a girl who spent several middle/high school years as a competitive swimmer, I was practically in the mood to beg to feel some good 'ol water--and no, my shower was not good enough!--and some delicious crab from the East coast. 'Twas Saturday night at the time, and after I did some phone calling, around came our good Korean friend Myunghee who was up for a mini trip to the sea.































............By car from Daegu, we drove roughly 45 mintes-- not only did we hit the beach, but we ate some pretty damn good food at a nearby restaurant called "Cha Deem Sang" right before. So here it is, folks: the dae-geh (crab) that's been long-awaited...!!! Not to mention, fresh mollusk, fried fish, snails, and veggies .. your average Pohang-style side dishes.



Saturday, August 11, 2007

Refocus: The Baby Experience?!

I've been eating watermelon alot lately. It's funny, you buy one whole big watermelon for a near 12,000 Won, and seriously, you're up to your ears in water and melons for over a week!

Okay, okay.. so I've been contemplating. It's unfortunate that every post of mine---which by the way, I think I've posted a total of 7 posts since January of this year---has turned out thus far to be quite dramatic... but this time around, I've had a few good reasons or two for lagging.

In my last entry, May 1st, I was contemplating the idea of bringing up the fact that Ahsan and I are expecting, but nothing seemed to flow right. I tried putting the right words together to 'come out' to the real world, but alas, in a nutshell, it really didn't matter. I have essentially been transitioning myself from the 'world traveler, nobody holds Chelsea down, girl' to the momma to be, still geographically located in a challenging environment! When it all boils down, at least on this part of the world's trunk, we have but a few weeks left (approximately, oh, 7 weeks and a handful of days) before this little kicker is born~ and alas, everything is going as planned.

Until yesterday.

In a nutshell, work has been chaotic. Actually, that's an understatement: my work been abusive, not to just myself (as I was the Head Teacher, until recently felt the need to step down) but as well to our other teachers who have no less, come to our school based on reputation, intention and hope of working better hours and teaching in a stable environment.

We have recently come together as a bit of a 'union' amongst us teachers in order to negotiate our terms of working with our school. I know, I never thought I'd be apart of another disastrous blog allocated to the misgivings of an unfortunate situation: a school once again taking advantage of its teachers. We only believe it is our right, particularly since as of a week ago, we were given the exact dates of a weekend camp in which we are now all required to participate in. And the disgusting thing about it, is that it's not even at our school: it's for the kid's of Daegu Bank employees, at a camp in Palgon Mt., and of whom are paying us a whopping 300,000 Won for the entire weekend (9am to 9pm, Friday, Saturday and 9am to 5pm or so Sunday). Believe me, we've broken down the hours. According to our Manager, we're working 21 class hours that weekend; according to us, we'll be there for 31 hours, and that's not including the 'sleep' time (since they recommend we stay there...) Who's going to fall for this? Working less than 10,000 Won per hour? Ridiculous!

And then I recently find, supposedly in order to work off-campus for your school, you need to have a special permit linked to your Alien Registration Card. So you'd think a legitimate school would have made sure it's ass(es) was/were covered in case of an uproar such as this one.

This summer has definitely thrown us teachers for a loop. The crazy thing is, I am just coming down from a two week period of working almost 12 hours days (okay, 12 hours a day the first week, then I realized I was a sucker and letting management take advantage of my 'lead position'). The worst part of this is not that our original Vice-Director was given the boot (non-renewal of contract) at the worst possible time~ beginning of summer, 3 camps, and a whole shit-pile of a mess; but that our new manager hasn't a clue how to run a school~ and the fact is, there is NO authoritative figure in our school who has the final say, who puts the last period on the final sentence. We are supposedly under the mighty umbrella--aka jurisdiction--of the larger, more established college. I laugh at that, really. We're being tooled around like mules, and our manager acts like a wet noodle when it comes to the requests of our supposed higher powers who appear to be calling the shots more frequently: I want X done as of yesterday because... why? I have asked myself. This guy needs to be more of a whip and stand up for not only the sanity of our teachers, but for the reason and logic needed~ to keep our school afloat and the most basic functioning of our school. If not, we are due to capsize.

Are we planning to involve the Ministry of Labor here in Korea, yet? You bet your Daddy if it comes down to it. Mismanagement and ignorance is not an excuse to mislead, miscommunicate and misguide teachers. I don't care what kind of reputation the school has (and mind you, we are supposed to have a great reputation. Pfff!)

So with that said, we had a bit of a scare yesterday with the baby.

I had a few classes swapped in order to make up for a class at Kyungbuk National University, a French class at the Alliance Francaise (of Daegu) that I absolutely could not miss. I am studying for the B2 DELF exam in September, donc je ne veut pas le raté!

Of all days,
Friday was the last day à m'inscrire, to sign up to take the DELF exam. I rushed a bit, with the help of the Assistant Director at the Alliance (after class) and very soon thereafter needed to get back to work in order to catch my class and teach. I had already been stressed early yesterday because of our plan to negotitate working terms with our school (needless to say, it was unresolved and a pathetic meeting, once again, with no concrete result). Upon leaving the Alliance and in plan to take a taxi, I had the most horrible stomach cramps: it felt like my belly button was in-process of splitting open! I had to grab my self and head to the nearest bathroom, in hopes to calm down and see what was going on.

No luck. Still wasn't feeling well. So I called Ahsan to come get me and take me over to our baby hospital Prime to have things checked out. Luckily, everything was fine. I did have a few pre-labour contractions, which means that the stress (work related, ha..) needs to decrease pronto. They hooked me up to a nifty machine where they measured contractions (only had one during an hour and a half, so that's good) and the fetal heartbeat. The baby sure was kicking.. and the doctor said the baby is trying to make space now that he's growing very fast~ and to expect that the kicking and pushing (boy, does he love to put his feet under my ribcage!) is normal, and may hurt and be uncomfortable.

Great stuff to look forward to!

Well, I think that's it for me today. Once big entry and it's time to get to doing something on this great, cool Saturday. I've been ordered to chill, and that's certainly what I've been up to! Hmm..now that it's 3pm, where is Ahsan..

Until next time~ Chelsea

(original post started 6/27/07)

Tuesday, May 01, 2007

Happy May Day~ The Hanbok Experience, plus the ditty on the date and more!


Alright, guys. Why hasn't anyone emailed me about my lack of website updating? I'm clearly lost here. This doesn't look good for my record keeping skills. I tell you what though, for those of you in the know, I'm assuming you probably figure that these many changes going on in my life have taken a bit more importance than my website upkeeping~ but alas, let me dig into the meat of what I'm posting about.

One month ago I posted my Pakistan trip~ which was in February. This time around, I decided to finally upload some GREAT spring pictures, local temple trips and yes, my Hanbok experience. Interesting, let's talk about that a moment.

A word about the hanbok, thanks to dictionary.com:
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Hanbok

Hanbok (한복) (South Korea) or chosŏn-ot (조선옷) (North Korea) is the traditional Korean dress. It is characterized by vibrant colors and simple lines without pockets. Although the term literally means "Korean clothing", hanbok today often refers specifically to Joseon Dynasty-style semi-formal or formal wear that is worn during traditional festivals or celebrations.
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Now, every waeguk (a.k.a. foreigner) who stays in Korea outta know, you're obliged to get the Hanbok if you stay more than 2 years. That justifiably classifies you as a quasi-lifer (I hear to be a true Korea-lifer, you need to be on the books for more than 5 years). Well, there were a couple of reasons why I got mine. I'm not yet at the 2 year mark, but surely at 1 year and 10 months, I'm pretty darn close! So read further, that is if I haven't put you to sleep already...

FIRST, check out my Hanbok Collage that I put up on Flikr. Neat pictures indeed.

The idea behind getting the Hanbok was a simple one: I wanted a keepsake to remember Korea. Alright, now that doesn't necessarily mean that I'm leaving, folks. No pre-crying yet! But then again, there has been very little posting---as in much unsaid---since my February vacation. That obviously leads the reader to two conclusions: I'm slacking, and there's no excuse, or... a change is gonna come! (I love Sam Cook, and by the say, for all you IDOL fans, I still think Taylor Hicks rocked my world with his audition song!) So as you can imagine, folks, it's the latter.

Which means... there's a strong likelihood that I may lay this blog to rest. While I've enjoyed updating, seeking new adventures and posting my findings in the last near 2 years of my Korean Experience, I'm refocusing my direction, and I am finding new meaning to my experience here. I may not necessarily lay the blog to rest completely--because I definitely have a lot of time and effort invested in this blog! But there is definitely room to say that I may either start a new blog completely, and convert this one to a picture blog and/or "Korea related" resources to guide visitors, local expats and the like; or, I may slowly roll this blog over into something more like... "The Marriage Experience," or "The Korean Experience Weds Pakistan" to name a few.

Yep, there you have it. Girl meets boy, boy falls in love with girl, pretty soon they are inseparable, and BOOM! They get married. ta-da!

The big news. Don't forget to breath!

Not so big news for those in the know---so bare with me because it's old news! For the time being, at least, I won't make any rash blog decisions yet: I'll update this blog as much as I can, being as we're 3 weeks nearer to our Wedding date! May 20th ~ ~ And.. there's SO much to do. I never thought it would be so difficult planning a wedding in a foreign country. But long story short~ the original plans for a big party in Korea (engagement party) and then a family-small wedding in the States turned into one GRANDIOSE party/wedding in Korea because--ahem--the difficulty in getting Ahsan a visa. I guess I should be happy he's from Pakistan! Grrr. Nevertheless, time's counting... and we finally have the wedding hall and date fixed, along with the help of a bridal shop to 'coordinate' pictures, video, makeup/hair and .. dress if we choose. But recently, I came across this beautiful Pakistani dress...

And
it made me realize I'd MUCH rather be wearing this down the aisle (in the, yes, Western-style, overglamorized Korean-style wedding hall, mind you..) than some ritzy dress I'm renting for nearly $600 bucks that I'll never wear nor see again. Turns out, this little golden jewel costs $450 bucks! Plus, who's to say I won't ever wear it again? It's absolutely gorgeous, and I'm sure Ahsan and I will be visiting Pakistan again (although let me tell you, I never thought I would after I fell sick on my visit there! lol)

Alas, there you have it. The opening for the theme of the next 3 weeks worth of blog entries: all about Chelsea and Ahsan's Wedding!

Definitely a joyous and nerve-wracking time~ with so little time and so many things to do. Stay tuned for updates from yours truly.

~ Chelsea


Sunday, April 01, 2007

Happy April 1st: Pakistan 2007 Pictures Up!

No, not an April Fool's joke, I promise! Not like this one.

...finally got all the Pakistan trip pictures up. Be careful though, I've got some 650 some-odd photos and they take a bit to load. Couldn't I have just chosen the best pictures to upload?

Of course not. My pictures are chronological, so they sort of 'tell a story' ~ from beginning to end. So no whining! You can watch the slideshow here--it's a bit faster.

In any event, there is indeed MUCH to update. Besides the usual vacation blunders of February, exerpts from my trip to not only Pakistan (wearing the burka, oh-my!), but as well the usual and unusuallness from visits back home to Louisiana and Washington... there's been alot of changes goin'round and only part of them will be publicized! All those 'dear and near' know what I'm speaking of! La ~ ti~ da...

Until then.. enjoy the photos. Leave me feedback. Eat a healthy salad and some curry. I'll be back before you know it.

~ Chels

Ps. And, oh, because it's cute...